Unfinished business is unfinished relationships
Unfinished business is relationships that are finished but you still hang on to them. Relationships with your boss, with a member of the opposite sex even with the same sex, are all unfinished business. You still feel about that person and you are angry or hurt by him/her. You are entitled to anger and hurt by holding on to it. For a long time is not healthy for everybody. You can write a letter and burn it, so you will let off the hurt and anger. It is selfish and appropriate to write a letter. It burns once the letter does not help, try and burn it more times. It takes a while to get it out of the system.
Dear X,
I hate you because you hurt me. You hurt me by living me out (or any other reasons the person did to you). You hurt me by not talking to me. Despite all these, I forgive you and let you go. I forgive you because you are stupid and do not understand that I am a worthy and valuable human being. I am worthy because God says so. In the face of God, we are all worthy and valuable human beings. I forgive you and let you go. You are free and I am free. Now burn the letter and then the anger and hurt will be diminished
Some people would say you should mail the letter. But you do not want the other person to be involved. You want to forget about the situation. Another thing that might help is to look at the person’s negative points, especially as is a partner. You want to forget about it and move on.
Free spirit
Would you like to be a free spirit? Maybe you do, so enjoy going from one person to others on any social strata. From prostitute to CEO of companies. You will enjoy their company and also learn from them. Free spirit. The only problem with free spirit is that you will not be able to stay alive. The sooner you get away from the free spirit the better.
Habits
We are creatures of habit and what we do over and over again becomes a habit Good healthy habits versus negative habits which do not help us. Always develop the habit of being positive. Always look for the good in everything. This is good for your mental health. The habit of saving money and investing money is good for your financial situation. The habit of getting up in the morning doing your affirmations and reviewing your goal. Develop as many good habits as you can. And let go of unhealthy ones.
Fights
It is fair and healthy to say that we fight among ourselves? In a world where life is short is fighting appropriate? Unfortunately, even if you stop fighting the fact that the world is fighting, we cannot get away from it. You should learn how to fight and pick the fights you want or think are appropriate. Do not fight with everybody as some people do. Picking your fights is the right attitude. There are people who, if they stop fighting do not know what else they can do in their life. Similarly for people who got you, once they have got you and you accept them and they look for a different challenge, in other people. People do not know how to live. This is the ego talking.